WHO DO YOU NEED? III

Every good container has a good lid. The lid matches the container and fits perfectly. When you look at them, you see that they are both made for each other. They may not know it themselves, but every observer sees it is so. A Nokia battery made in Vietnam fits perfectly into a Nokia phone made in India; they are made for each other. As human beings, we need partners that are the most perfect match.

You need your perfect match!

The most perfect match means the person that is close to the perfect match. You cannot get a perfect match. You can make your perfect match but the work is easier when he is as close as possible - and he allows you to. You see, just as atoms of a particular element can only react with a select few of other elements, under normal circumstances, so is a particular human being able to form a match with only a select few of the human population. So you need to be careful. People usually suffer when they do not know what they ought to know.

Some people think their perfect matches are those with height, with bust, with heavy backside, with fair face, with bulging muscles, with heavy bank account, with joy rides and exotic houses. While all these may be good in themselves, making a decision based on them is wrong for a long-term relationship. The world is full of opposites, and opposites match.

Your match must compliment you with respect to your true self and destiny. He must need you to be whole. As a director, you do not need another director, you need a producer. You don’t have to make a union of double positives or double negatives. You need to be neutral – though generating a polarity in another dimension. If you dress so well, that dressing is an important aspect of your life, you don’t need a woman who is like that, or you will tend to over dress. Are you bread? You need butter!

When you walk the street with your partner, do people ask you, “is he the one?” if so, then she may be your match. Probably, the match deep down in your beings are being seen by those people though they may not understand how.

Can you count a number of things you can always do better with him in your life? If you can most probably he is the one.

Does he listen to you, respect you, tolerate your naughty idiosyncrasies, and even seem to enjoy them? Does he excuse and forgive you often, yet you do not think of him as one who is weak? Then most probably, he is the one.

Remember, you need to find your most perfect match, which is what you get naturally. Then you make him your perfect match; I assume he is teachable!